She Doesn't Like Me

Well I talked with her on the bus but the conversation wasn't much. Then when we got to school and she went her way and I went mine one of her friends asked me over. He told me that she didn't like me because I made her uncomfortable. Well I went through the first 2 stages of grief right there.

Later on during 1st hour finals I talked with her through text. I asked her about how people said she had a crush on me and how I asked her out but she doesn't remember her saying yes. She said it wasn't a crush but she wanted to meet new people and she was too nervous to talk to me. Now how the hell do you want to be just someone's friend if you were hiding behind someone so I wouldn't notice.

I'm now on the 4th stage of grief and I want nothing to do with her anymore. When I saw her waiting for the bus at school I didn't even so much as second glance at her. It's not that I'm mad she doesn't like me, but that she herself wouldn't tell me.

There is one more thing I don't get, she had boyfriends before me but she says she has a girlfriend now so she has no reason to like me. She gave me so many mixed messages of course I was lost.

I'm over it now. I talked with her which made me feel better.

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Nillions 2008-12-17 17:06:39

"Too much of a pussy to commit suicide."

If this is a serious thought, then it's pretty fucking dumb.

And what's with the "stages of grief" shit? IT'S A GIRL WHOM YOU HAD A CRUSH ON. IT DIDN'T WORK OUT. TOO BAD.

You go through stages of grief when a close friend or relative dies, not when some girl whom you like rejects you.

She felt uncomfortable around you because you didn't relax around her, you weren't cool and laid back about shit. This was apparent from your many blogs about her. It wasn't obsessive, but pretty darn close in my opinion.

You really need to get a grip.

Some-Stupid-Idiot 2008-12-17 17:06:39

Well it wasn't like I was hanging over her shoulder all the time. I was calm when talking to her I was jest really shy. And I did feel denial, anger, I really didn't bargain, but I am depressed.

The stages of grief apply to everything.

Nillions 2008-12-18 07:10:15

<a href="http://www.thefreedictionary.com/grief">http://www.thefreedictionary.com/grie f</a>

Read it, and you'll find out that "grief" is more commonly associated with bereavement, a state of sorrow that somone goes through due to the death or departure of a loved one.

You're thinking way too hard about this, it's more simple than you think it is.

Some-Stupid-Idiot 2008-12-18 07:10:15

I'm over it now. It just wasn't that serious as the real stages of grief. I was sad, but now I'm better.

Nillions 2008-12-18 07:17:47

Ah wait, I've just noticed something new in the text.

Well, it's good to know that you were able to resolve things. It's just that the "stages of grief" shouldn't be applied to something as common or as normal as this.

While you're thinking about the stages of grief over something that isn't really a big deal, someone out there who has just lost their wife or their husband could really be experiencing it, so bear that in mind.

If you are over it, then let's stick in something happy, instead of Mr Emoshadow there, and recommence the laughs. :)

Some-Stupid-Idiot 2008-12-18 07:17:47

I'm over it but I'm not in a laughing mood.

Razorcock 2008-12-18 22:11:56

Razorcock thinks you should just fuck her already.

Some-Stupid-Idiot 2008-12-18 22:11:56

I'm over her now, we're just friends now.

dizzyds 2008-12-20 17:28:04

yeah im late of this but yeah sounds like your much better off...
from what it seems she is confused and is craving attention... trust me she'd just be a pain in the ass... but good thing you are over this... that is a good thing... =]